Jesus is Kind – Not Nice! – Ps. Al Velez
Biblical word definitions in the Greek and in Hebrew often reveal different intended descriptions than what we translate in our own English language definitions.
One example of that is believing that kindness reflects niceness or niceties in the Bible and attaching that description to the character of Jesus. The problem with that is that there is no scripture identifying Jesus as nice but instead – kind. Kindness in the Greek is the word “chrestos” which is defined as: fit for use and virtuous.
“Or do you not presume on the riches of His kindness and forbearance and patience, not knowing God’s kindness is meant to lead you to repentance” Romans 2:4 ESV
The kindness of God has a goal: to develop you, transform you, correct you and empower you.
Kindness teaches but niceness appeases.
If Jesus wanted to be nice, He would have calmed the storm before He asked Peter to step out of the boat and walk on the water. Instead, it was the kindness of Jesus extending His hand to Peter for the purpose of developing his faith during the storm.
“He has told you, O man, what is good; and what does the Lord require of you but to do justice, and to love kindness, and to walk humbly with your God?” Micah 6:8 ESV
We can see here that justice and humility are grouped with kindness. Being nice can subvert justice from a place of not getting involved but kindness demands action for the greater good.
Please see the men’s breakfast video and Ps. Al’s teaching attached below and let’s be men that operate in the kindness of God!
7 Holy Habits (disciplines) to grow into Mature Manhood
- Increase your daily intake of God’s Word. Starting your day in the Word.
- Guard your heart, especially against offense.
- Increase your prayer life, praying intentionally rather than routinely.
- Keep your heart sensitive to the Holy Spirit through obedience to the Word and His promptings.
- Choose godly wisdom over neutral or emotionally-driven options.
- Practice fasting as a regular spiritual discipline.
- Look for opportunities to serve, disciple, and mentor others.
To find out how you can be more involved contact Pastor Al Velez at avelez@kcm.org or call 817-252-2964 or Matthew Fortier at mfortier@kcm.org or call 817-252-3615
Our Men’s Ministry is designed to equip you with biblical weapons of warfare and disciple you and one another in the Word of God and in meaningful relationships so that we join our faith together for victory!
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Until then stay strong and courageous – AS ONE!
Love and blessings! Pastor Al
Men's Breakfast Teaching
Men's Breakfast Video Link -
August 15, 2026
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